I spent the last several days deeply under the weather with a very unpleasant head cold (are any of them pleasant?).
I missed two days of work and really have not been fully functional this weekend though Missus and I did celebrate her birthday on Saturday with dinner at a very nice Japanese restaurant with good friends. A very good time had by all.
I am feeling almost human. Work calls tomorrow and life will pick up speed again….
I needn’t tell you that I didn’t ride at all or walk much or do much of anything since Wednesday and I am feeling like a tree sloth right now, fat and slow.
The weight held steady, actually dropped slightly, so I am ok there. I flexed my eating (yeah, sure, a lack of appetite due to the cold had nothing to do with it) and avoided the bedridden weight gain.
Today it was a cold and dreary and wet day so there was no riding to be done even had there been no head cold to contend with. Somehow the fact that the weather would have kept me from riding in any case made me feel better about not being in any shape to ride…
Strange
By mid-week I suspect I will be in fine shape.
The coming week and weekend
The weather this week will be a challenge. It is expected to be warm but with a possibility of thunderstorms… Then of course there is the holiday weekend.
Travel to and from a big cookout out-of-state will make riding a challenge.
I will find a way….
How much one changes in a year…
310 pounds, Summer 2011. I am not him anymore. I am starting to understand who I am now
At the cookout last year I was in the 235 pound range, 70 or so pounds down from my starting weight and people were STUNNED at my weight loss. I am 30 pounds lighter now and I have maintained the goal weight since last August.
I am simply not who I was a year ago. Not even close to the person I was two years ago.
I get less visits from the Black Dog, less episodes of depression. I am less anxious about my weight and less nervous about allowing the occasional indulgence.
Some things have not changed or have changed only in the depth of my commitment. I am still not eating red meats and I have started to phase out other meats, poultry and fish, as well. My commitment to fitness is deeper now. It was strong a year ago. It is a passion now.
I am always planning my next walk, my next hike, my next ride.
I am as passionate about my health as I was a year ago. I still talk about it incessantly. I am still writing this blog and still thinking out my days as they will relate to food and exercise.
What has changed? I am now much more accustomed to living the way I live now. It is now less forced. I am planning and thinking from habit now not from conscious effort. I run a tab in my head of everything I eat. I know the calories by heart now. I still record them in the LOSEIT.COM app, still record even one jelly bean. No though I do it from habit. It is natural for me to do this. I don’t have to remind myself, force myself, over think it.
A year ago I was constantly reminding myself to records it, plan it, think it, do it.
Now I just do it.
In situations like the upcoming cookout I will remind myself to not snack and nibble and I will remind myself to walk around a great deal to get in the steps. I will probably go up and down the flight and a half of steps on the deck 30 times or more in the course of the day. I will remind myself to make sure that happens.
It is in the day-to-day that I am beginning to grow comfortable, beginning to feel that this lifestyle has become my life. I am learning to be the person I have become. Sounds like the cart in front of the horse but, for me, it works just that way.
I knew that losing weight and getting fit would bring on changes in my body. I just wasn’t really prepared for just how extensive those changes would be. As Missus and I did a next-to-last purge of the fat man clothes a few nights ago I came across a pair of dress slacks that I had for years. Wonderful wool slacks, a medium gray, the best pair of slacks I have every owned, now way to large. How large? I was able to put BOTH of my legs in to one of the pants legs… Should have taken a picture of THAT….
Jackets once too tight now wrap around me like a bathrobe. Sweater once snug are now like tents on me.
All three males in this household wear the same waist pants! 34-inch waist on the Older, the Young and the Dad….
Odd things.
Like these….
I started wearing Bib-shorts for cycling a number of years ago because the waist on regular cycling shorts would roll down because of my gut. Bib-shorts would serve the dual purpose of preventing that and holding in the belly so I looked a little thinner.
I got to the point I was wearing XXL bib-shorts.
Now all my bib-shorts are too large on me (even the XL) and I now find that I wear a MEDIUM in a regular cycling short. How’s THEM apples….
Fortunately I do have a couple of pair of bib shorts that still fit OK and I can wear them but…. Well, I am looking forward to buying regular cycling shorts. IN A MEDIUM!
My jersey size is still an XL… Go figure… Well that is at least in part because I like a slightly loose jersey and my long torso begs for a longer shirt….
Odd things…
Trying to Keep the Calories UP
I am having trouble again keeping my calories up. I find that with the new job (and the increased walking and so forth) and my continued slide to vegetarian I am coming in at
Roasted Cauliflower, Sweet Potato, and Broccoli, Coriander Chutney, Matouks Flambeau Hot Sauce and Lentils in a spicy tomato Sauce…
1000 calories or more UNDER plan. This would explain why I have dropped 3 pounds this week on top of the two I lost on the ride this past weekend. I have dropped from 206 on Friday last to 201 this morning.
I have to watch this. Dropping that much that fast at this point is not a good thing. I have to find a way to increase the calories without putting myself at risk of losing control of my eating. This is a concern for me no matter what. I just have to watch it so closely…
Tonight I find myself at a 990 calorie short fall. This is after I allowed myself a chocolate chip cookie (empty, but delicious, calories). So I will be adding in a more substantial lunch at work to see if I can bring the calories up that way. I also need to increase the size of breakfast. Ding that my last three breakfasts have been less than 300 calories… Should be closer to 450 now that I am in maintenance mode…
When I was fat all I really thought about was food. Now that I am lean and for all of the Journey all I ever really think about is food.
Just a different angle on it now…
Giving Back to my Sport…
One of the nice things about an organized bike ride, be it a fund-raiser or just a fun ride, is the rest areas. Free food like PB&J sandwiches, bananas, cereal bars and the like, and water bottle refills, restrooms, and a place to rest up off the bike for a few minutes. They are staffed by volunteers who would probably rather ride but give back to their sport and work the rest areas instead.
I volunteered for a ride sponsored by my bike club last year because I could not ride due to my knee injury.
I was asked to volunteer again this year and I have agreed to do so. The ride is the Ramapo Rally and I will be working the Montville Township NJ rest area. Look for the guy with the Pepper Theme cycling cap.
I look at it as giving back to the sport that has given me so much.
All is Right, Right Now…
Life has normalized a little for us right now. I am working and feeling good about the new job. It is right in my wheelhouse in terms of skills and knowledge and I am enjoying the challenges and I feel on top of my game.
The boys are doing well. The Younger is doing well in school and he is great at watching the Older one for us. The Older one is doing fine, still is, and always will be, a challenge but he is settling a little and his rough times are getting shorter, less rough and a little further apart. We think we have found a program for him for two or three days a week and so he will be able to get out of the house and be with his peeps. That HAS to help. Missus is looking forward to a few hours a few days a week to herself.
It has been a rough road the last few months. I dealt with much self-doubt and frustration. In the old days I would have found refuge in food. This time I found refuge in activity. Cycling mostly, hiking as well. I found the release and relief in pushing myself. This is so far removed from where I was.
So right now, this day, this week, All is Right with my little corner of the world.
A little side note
A note to my friends at home, on Facebook and on this blog, and to my family for their support of the Ride 4 Autism. So far your generosity has raised nearly $1000.00 on my ride page. I am stunned and deeply humbled by the generosity. Thank you
I have written about this before but I have given it more thought and I want to write about it some more.
Loving it!
How good do I feel?
People often say something to the tune of “I bet you feel great” or “You must feel wonderful”, referring to how I feel physically now that my body no longer carries around so much extra ME.
I always answer the same way, in the affirmative. I do feel great, I do feel wonderful. Things that once ached all the time now don’t ache at all or ache rarely or less. The interesting thing though is that it is only in retrospect that I realize how awful I felt.
I didn’t know at the time that being fat and out of shape caused so much of the aches and pains. Much of it I put down to getting older. The inevitable consequence of an aging body. I didn’t understand, or didn’t want to understand, that it was the weight, the abuse of the body from carrying over 100 pounds of excess.
How does it really feel? It feels as though I have taken 10 or more years off my body. I can do now at 52 what I could not do at 42. I can do at this age what 15 years ago was becoming a struggle. I feel as though I have lost not only pounds but age as well.
How does it really feel? It feels as though life has been given back to me. It feels as though I have opened closed doors and found a me I thought was lost forever.
Losing the weight, building the fitness feels like I found a secret to life. It is the kind of thing that if it happened for you overnight after the visitation of three spirits you would open the window and shout it out to all who would hear and you would buy a prize turkey for everyone in sight.
Do I feel great? What it better than great?
NEXT
With the Five-Boro behind me now I am looking forward to the next few adventures.
I am going on a hike this coming Saturday with good friends MT and PGB. I believe PGB said it is something like 8 miles of trail. Included in this is a “Billy-Goat Climb”, meaning, I suspect, that it is a hand-over-hand steep ascent. I am really excited about this. Not so long ago PGB would not have even proposed such a hike to me. Now it is simply another good hike in good company.
If I get back early enough I will go on a bike ride to the Bike Club Picnic. We will see. I plan to ride Sunday afternoon as well, once we return from visiting my Mother-In-Law for Mothers Day.
June 2nd I have the Tour of Bergen County. 45 miles through the hills of Northeastern New Jersey. That should be fun but I am nervous about the hills.
June 8th comes the next big challenge, the Ride 4 Autism. 62 miles through the countryside of central New Jersey. Beautiful area. This ride is very dear to me as it raises money for Autism awareness and research. It is my daily hope that treatments for Fragile X Syndrome will be found as a direct result of this research.
Between this weekend and the Ride 4 Autism, I will get in as much cycling as I can. I really need to hit the hills. I need the practice and I need to build the stamina and leg strength.
I need to find more rides for later in the year. I want to do the North-Fork Century on Long Island at the end of the summer but it is a very expensive and I am not sure I can justify the expense.
There is another Century ride in Connecticut in the fall that appeals to me and I am giving it serious thought.
Of course there will also be some hiking in there.
This is what I mean when I say I opened a door and found a me that was lost forever.
Eating
Today marks day three of vegetarian eating. No meat of any type: mammal, bird, or fish. This isn’t really intentional. It is just progressing that way.
We have added quinoa to our menu to increase the amount of protein we are getting, also added more beans. We also get protein from dairy. We are sliding to vegetarian, not vegan.
A typical dinner: Kabocha and Butternut Squash, Brown Rice, mixed greens and a Sweet Potato
We are excited that local produce will start to hit the market in a couple of months and we will plant our own garden in another couple of weeks. We are especially looking forward to home-grown veggies…
The boys are not following us on this so far. They continue to eat red meats. Burgers are a big favorite. We are trying to set the good example and we encourage them to follow. We have had limited success so far. The Older One eats anything we serve him so we are having more success with him. The Younger One…
If you had told me two years ago this would be me I would have scoffed.
So Sunday is the BIG DAY OF THE BIG RIDE. The largest ride in America. 32,000 cyclists, riders, pedal-pushers, bike riders rolling on the car-free streets of New York City.
Wow.
I am in the best shape of the last 20+ years and I am ready for this ride.
2010. Notice the belly on me? 250 pounds but I did finish the ride…..
When I did it in 2010 I was not so much ready for the ride…
I was 50 pounds heavier than I am now.
I had only been back to riding since March of that year.
I barely made it all the way through the ride.
It was the day that I met my friend NI in person for the first time and I am sure he looked at this large guy and thought “no way he completes the ride”….
No such concerns now. I am in shape for the ride and ready to go.
200 pounds. notice the lack of a belly!
Of course many things can happen, many of them bad, when you are riding with 32,000 others. Crashes are a known risk. Bumps, bangs bruises… All can happen. Muscles pull, hamstrings strain… But I am not concerned about them this time. I am really ready to ride and I am excited as all get out to be going.
SO NI will meet me at the Bike Expo tomorrow when we pick up the ride packets and we plan to have dinner with some friends. Then Sunday. At 7:45 AM. We ride.
I am a different person than I was in 2010.
And that is a very good thing.
My Headlong Rush
My conversion is nearly there. I will never be all the way there but I am nearly there.
Vegetarian…
I will always have some fish and poultry in my diet I suspect. I love lox too much to give it up entirely… But the amount of my diet that meats of any type occupy is steadily shrinking. Tonight’s dinner was vegetarian. As was dinner two nights ago and several o f the nights before that. Last night was Sushi…
I had a bit of chicken for lunch today.
Very little meats. No red meats at all.
Why?
I have written about this before and it bears another look.
I am not an PETA type. I have no problem with the slaughter of animals for human consumption. We are at the top of the food chain and I am not bothered by that.
I am doing it because I truly believe it is a healthier diet and that it will prolong my life by reducing my risk of heart disease, stroke, and some cancers. This includes the cancer that has been a scourge of my family for three generations, Colon Cancer.
I like Beef. I like Pork. I am ok with lamb but it isn’t a favorite. I have given up the red meats because I believe that my health is more important than the food. I miss eating a juicy burger. I miss bacon. I just won’t eat them because I weighed 300+ pounds and I have done damage to my body and I am now working to reverse or at least slow the progress of some of that damage. I believe giving up red meats, fatty foods, indulgences in treats and snacks, and replacing them with fruits and vegetables, whole grains and small portions of fish or poultry give me the best chance of living a longer and healthier life.
I call this my headlong rush because it is picking up speed and gaining momentum. And I like the rush.
New Job
As some of you know, I have been unemployed/under employed since January when my “Great New Job” in Pennsylvania evaporated. I have been picking up some work doing service tech work. The problem with this is I spent more than half of the day in a truck driving to the job sites. Too much time on my butt, not enough on my feet.
The new FULL TIME JOB starts on Monday and I will be back to doing what I do best, and like to do best. I am managing manufacturing department. I will be on my feet walking around the largest part of the day. I will be back to the activity level I am accustomed to and comfortable with. And there is every chance that I will get home at a reasonable time in the evening and get to ride!
It is 19 miles way. I am trying to figure out how to cycle there…..
That would be GREAT!!!!
See Ya Sunday Night
I won’t be posting tomorrow. If all goes well I hope to write a nice long post, complete with a few pictures, about the Five Boro Bike Tour. I am very excited about the ride and I hope toi have a really good post to write on Sunday night.
Do me a favor everyone: Get Up. Get Out. Walk, ride, run, DO.
I need to explain. It is not so much the inability to get exercise that is depressing me about this cold weather. It is the lack of the freedom and exhilaration I feel when I am riding. I can’t get this when I ride an exercise bike or wind trainer. I can’t get it when I hike or walk. It is a feeling I only get when I ride.
I do not recall ever feeling the frustration with the weather that I have been feeling the last few weeks.
Not a fun feeling.
Bounce
My weight bounced up over the last week. It also dropped. Then it bounced up again. Then I got myself figured out and got myself back to the plan and now it is going down steadily again.
Staying with the plan is critical for me. If I allow myself to stray I start to gain weight. I find that I really cannot allow myself the indulgences. When I do I gain weight and that is a frightening thing for me. Let’s be clear. I gained 4 pounds and saw 209 on the scale for the first time in a very long while. I still have not gone over my goal weight of 210 since I passed it last August but 209 is entirely too close for my comfort.
I am now back under 205.
This is as it should be. Plan. Execute Plan. Achieve (or maintain) Goal.
FOOD
This was dinner tonight:
Roasted Kabocha and Butternut Squash
Roasted Sweet Potato
Multi-Grain Rice
Sauté of Orange Sweet Pepper, Bok Choy and Spinach
My word it was good.
How I Feel
Physically I feel great. I am able to do things I could not have done a year and a half ago. I am lean. I am fit. I can walk ten miles, cycle fifty mile, run about 12 feet… Ok, so running is still a challenge for me.
My surgically repaired knee feel OK. Still some ligament pain but that is to be expected. The joint does not hurt and I have no issues with it when I cycle or hike…
My blood pressure is great and I am still working on getting off the meds entirely at some point. My heart rate is fantastic.
There isn’t much I can do about the rest of me. Fifty-two is 52. I am in great shape for a fellow who worked really hard at abusing his health for so many years.
Mentally…. I have my ups and downs. I am frustrated with the weather, my employment situation and assorted other things. I am wrestling with emotions as I watch my weight bounce, feel I am not getting in the workouts that I should and I constantly worry about falling down and gaining the weight…
So I am normal.
Being Positive
I have started reading a blog by a young woman who is just starting her Journey. She writes well and she writes from the heart. I enjoy reading it and I see in her so much of what I go through.
She thanked me for a few of my comments on her blog, thanking me specifically for being so positive.
This got me thinking.
Yes. I think I am positive. I rarely doubted that I would make my goal weight. I had confidence that I could set the goal, develop the plan and I could make it happen.
This is not to say that I did not struggle. If you have ready much of this blog I think you will have read posts about my struggles, both physical and emotional. This has not always been an easy thing. In fact it has rarely been easy.
In the face of the struggles though I have kept myself focused on the plan and the goal. Then Goal never changed: lose weight and become fit. The only thing that change was the target weight. I dropped it from 230 to 210. The plan changed quite a bit as I learned about my body, learned to eat better, learned to exercise. The plan changed but the goals remained. And that is where I am now.
Staying positive in the face of struggled and frustrations and fears.
Staying positive in the face of daunting odds.
Staying positive in the face of negativity.
Being positive is the critical thing. Getting support from friends and family. Tuning out the naysayers and trash talkers.
Being Positive that you are doing this for YOU for the right reasons and that you will succeed.
On Saturday I hiked at the Rockefeller Preserve. Something between 10.4 and 11.6 miles. I don’t quite trust the GPS app on my iPhone….
The beautiful blue sky from the parking lot of the Preserve
views along the way
View Towards the Hudson
It was in any case a good, brisk hike and I enjoyed being out in the almost warm air of a day that seemed to promise that better, warmer weather is just around the corner after all. I really enjoy the preserve with its walking trails, surprising vistas, peaceful woods and burbling brooks. You can almost forget the real world while there…
On a trail bridge over Route 117
The hike was the longest I have taken in a long time and it was relaxing while being energizing. The sole downside was the pain in my feet from a poor selection of socks…
I was very good about eating when done with the hike. It would have been easy to fall in to the trap of taking advantage of the extra calories burned but I kept the day to 2300 calories. Exactly where I want to be for weight maintenance.
Today I joined the local bike shop for their weekly Sunday morning ride. Thirteen of us went off on a short ride of 22+ moderately hilly miles. I loved the ride for many reason, not the least of which was that much of the ride went through my old-home-town. I was very happy to have conquered a hill I had never ridden up successfully, always having to walk a part of it. This time I rode the entire hill. This victory was tempered by having to walk a longer, steeper hill later in the ride. Several other walked it as well so I didn’t feel quite so badly as I would if I had been the only one…
My new goal is to conquer Two Bridges Road…
So 11 miles walking yesterday, 22 riding today. A very good weekend of activity and I have controlled the eating…
With the 5-boro ride just four Sundays away I need to build the base miles. Riding in the evening will be difficult due to the unpredictability of my day. Based on how I felt today, I can do the 42 miles of the ride but I would really like to build up the stamina for some of the bridge approaches…
I am feeling really good. The surgically repaired knee feels great. I have no pain, no discomfort at all when cycling and only a minimal amount when going downhill while hiking and that is in the ligaments, not the damaged meniscus. This is a good thing!
This is about me, this blog, the tales of this Journey. I have never pretended to know much about nutrition or fitness or anything about this except as it relates to ME. I tell the story of my Journey, my trials, my tribulations. I talk about my failures and failings, my successes and my growth.
52 years old (minus one day). I think this is the best picture ever taken of me. Wish I had hair…..
This is not about what is right or wrong because it is all good.
If you are doing something completely different from what I am doing and you are having success then it is good. If lifting weights for hours in the gym is your way and it works for you then it is good. If you made the difficult decision to have gastric bypass and it was your last best option and it is working for you then it is good.
I decided that the way for me was to significantly reduce my calories, from over 4000 a day to around 1500, to change the foods I ate, eliminating the trigger foods as well as red meats, peanut butter and jelly and pizza and changing to a nearly vegetarian diet and lastly, to significantly increase my physical activity with hiking and cycling. This is what has worked for me and it is good. For Me.
In the year plus that I have been on this Journey and writing this blog I have been told that I am doing everything wrong, that I will regain the weight, that my method is “stupid”… I have been told that I have to follow a special diet, get rid of carbs, eat only meats, eat only veggies, eat like the caveman, eat like the astronauts….
If that is what works for others, it is fine with me. My opinion really doesn’t matter when it comes to YOU. My opinion only matters when it comes to ME.
The only thing that matters is SUPPORT. Encouragement and support are the backbone of any successful plan.
Think about this: If you have a friend or family member who is significantly overweight and that person decides to get fit they are embarking on what SHOULD BE a life changing course. And it is hard. And it is frightening. And they need support. Not criticism.
When I say significantly overweight I am not talking about 10-15 pounds or even 20-30 pounds. I am talking 70 pounds, 80 pounds, 100 pounds or more. I am talking people who are carrying around an extra person, not a few extra pounds.
I am telling you that the weight loss and fitness Journey I started on December 27, 2011 has been at once the most rewarding and frightening thing I have ever done. Imagine this: 50+ years old and you change everything you possibly can about the way you eat, exercise, live. You go from eating indiscriminately to recording everything you eat. You change from sitting on the couch to walking 5 miles in the freezing rain because you have to get in your miles.
You give up some of your favorite foods, you push yourself to learn new ways to cook, new ways to shop, new ways to live.
And all the while you are diving deep in to your brain trying to understand why you have been slowly killing yourself with food. Why you have been “committing suicide by a thousand bites”.
Imagine that this is you. It isn’t easy is it?
The Journey is hard. It doesn’t matter how the Journey is made. It is hard. It is hard for everyone on it. I have lost 105 pounds since December 27, 2011, 120 pounds from my peak weight. It has been hard. It has been rewarding. It has been the best thing I have ever done for myself and it has been the scariest thing I have ever done to myself. I think that this holds true for anyone on the Journey.
So my Journey is my own. I can’t tell you and I won’t tell you how to do this. If you are going about it in a completely different way, that is fine. I am happy that you are on the Journey. It’s all good.
Whether or not you are on your own weight loss and fitness Journey, support your friends and family and even the strangers you meet who are on the Journey. We need the support. This is hard. A pat on the back helps to ease the Journey.
Mileposts on the Journey
When I started this blog I would report on mileposts I passed along the way: 20 pounds down, 30… and so forth.
As they started flying by and it became “expected” I reported on them less often to the point that I have not really written about them at all in months.
I have passed a few recently and I wanted to write about them a little.
I passed my goal weight on August 8, 2012. I hit 209 pounds that day blasting right past the 210 pound goal. That was 228 days ago. For those 228 days my average weight is 202.5 pounds. Today I weighed 203 pounds when I stepped on the scale. Yesterday I was 202.6. I go up and down as much as a pound from one day top the next. So I am essentially right at my average weight since I hit my goal. And I am 7-8 pounds under my goal. 228 days at or below my goal weight.
The cold weather is interfering with my cycling plans but I am still getting out for hikes. The milepost here is the 7 straight weeks of achieving my fitness minutes. ….
More Hiking Today
I went for a short hike yesterday. I went close to home and climbed the trails around Turkey Mountain in Northern New Jersey. I think many people outside of the area might be surprised that New Jersey has wilderness areas and hiking trails but those of us who live here know. There are beautiful views, steep climbs, deep woods where the sound of traffic does not disrupt….
The hike was just under 4 and a half miles and was with good company. The air was crisply cold and the sky was mostly clear. There was snow cover on much of the trail but it was not a difficult hike and we made it safely.
A view across the valley. You can see One World Trade Center in the distance.
I hike most weekends now. I know it is frustrating Missus that I spend so much time away from the family on weekends but Missus also understands how important the fitness aspect of my Journey is to me.
I am hiking again today. I am driving to a park and I hope to get in 6-8 miles. This will give me 10-12 miles for the weekend and that will be good.
I am wishing for warmer weather but instead we are getting more snow tomorrow. This is getting old.
So I will keep hiking. I can hike in the cold. I find it very difficult to ride in the cold.
I went for a walk in the woods today, a hike if you will. I walked with a friend, SA and his niece M. We walked nearly nine miles and we walked at a good pace and we chatted and we enjoyed. It was a great start to a very good day.
Today’s Hike
The hiking is one of the activities representative of the changes in me over the last 15 months or so. When I started this Journey, or even before. Going back to the first time I walked at the Rockefeller Preserve in October of 2011. I think the hike was about 4 miles and I was spent at the end. I remember facing the long hill back up to the parking area and I wanted anything but to hike that hill. I managed but I stopped three times on the way. I got to the car and I was winded and exhausted and questioning my sanity for even thinking about that walk much less doing it.
Now hikes are so important to me. I try to plan one most weekends. I don’t get tired. I just keep going. Where once I struggled to maintain a 2-mile per hour pace I now walk over hill and dale at a three and a half mile an hour pace. TO me the hikes are illustrative of the overall change. Not just the change in weight and fitness but more deeply than that, it chows the changes in the mindset that can take place when you commit yourself to change.
Along the Trails at the Rockefeller Preserve
As SA, his niece, and I walked, I found it easy to chat because I was not getting winded. I enjoyed the hike and didn’t even think to stop for a break. I realized after the hike that perhaps I should have offered a break to my companions but they didn’t ask and I didn’t feel the need….
The woods were chilly today. It was low thirties as we walked but the exertion was enough, along with the layers of clothes, to keep me warm. I was able to truly enjoy the hike. I didn’t have to concern myself with being tired. I could just hike.
As we approached the end we decided to take a side hike to the top of the overlook. It is a good climb and we walked briskly. We didn’t stay long at the top; just long enough to snap a few pictures and then we headed back towards the bottom and the long climb back to the parking lot. These were the two longest and steepest climbs of the hike.
Some Breads for dinner tonight
I guess this is just a way of saying how good I felt today. I finished up in time to get home and make some breads to have with dinner tonight. We enjoyed the company of our friends DG and PG. I made a shrimp and chicken sausage Creole. Very tasty. Well received.
I would not have had the energy for a long walk and an afternoon spent in the kitchen a year ago. Now I don’t even question it.
High Point-Cape May.
A happy development from today’s hike is the possibility that SA will join KAR and me on High Point-Cape May adventure.
That makes three. I am hoping that we might get a fourth but three would be fine. Two would be fine. I just don’t want to go alone…
We plan to do the ride in early September over the course of three days. We expect to travel light with just the spare tubes and so forth that any cyclist would ride with. This is contingent on getting someone or a few people to act as our support team. Carrying our luggage so to speak… Meeting us at the rest areas, getting our hotels set up and the like. Any volunteers?
So much planning yet to do for a little (240-mile) bike ride…
Weighty Issues
Stepped on the scale and expected to see that I had gained a little weight. Nope. 201.6 pounds this AM. This is something that is amazing me really. Even when I think I have been over eating it turns out that I am doing a fair job of regulating my consumption after all. Even though the calorie counts look right, it sometimes feels that I am over doing it.
I need to trust myself a little more perhaps.
Will the warm weather EVER get here…
WE are expecting snow tomorrow afternoon in to the night. March 18 and we are looking at snow…
I am done with this. I need some 50-degree days. I want to get on the bike more than I have been. I have 7 weeks to the 5-boro ride and I need to lay down a base of miles…
This cold stuff is not doing it for me.
I can hike in the cold but I have never been able to adjust to cold weather cycling.
I turned 52 yesterday…. Hard for me to come to grips with the idea that I am in my 50′s. I was busy yesterday, fighting off a cold, dealing with getting things done. Didn’t feel the way birthdays felt when I was a boy. Remember that feeling? You were the center of the world for that one day. Mom made a special cake. The teacher made a fuss. Mom may have sent in her special homemade cupcakes. There would be a birthday party on the weekend…
That changes as you get older of course. Parties tend to end around age ten. Life gets busy. Birthdays…. Just another day?
My friends on Facebook were kind and I received many wishes for a good day. I appreciated it. It was nice to be thought of.
I received a call from each brother (very welcomed) and a call from JKN. A special friend and it was wonderful to get that call.
On Saturday and Sunday I went for bike rides. I went by myself but enjoyed them none the less. I did a bit over 20 miles on Saturday and only a bit over 12 on Sunday. I couldn’t understand why I felt so slow and sluggish on Sunday. At first I thought it was the fact that I had ridden 20 on Saturday and I was just not recovering from it. Then I started to feel the unmistakable first salvo of a developing head cold. Mystery solved.
A year ago my birthday fell on the weekend and I went for a ride. I was 268 pounds and just really getting my body fit. The ten-mile ride was brutal. It was chilly and windy and I was still fat and out of shape. But I did it. I did the ten miles as I promised myself I would.
This year I wanted a 60 mile weekend but the weather never got to the temperatures promised and so I scaled back on Saturday due to the brutal wind and Sunday was the arrival of the head cold.
Still, I did over thirty for the weekend and I am proving to myself all over again that I get this. I get the fact that fitness requires an effort. Weight loss and maintenance requires an effort. It is the rewards that make it worth it. And if you love the activity as I love cycling it hardly really feels like effort….
I was 50 and fat.
I was 51 and working towards the goal.
I am 52 and lean and fit and still working towards the goal.
I can’t wait to see what the coming year will bring….
Never too late to turn your life around.
Missus took this picture of me on Sunday. I think it is the best picture ever taken of me.
52 years old (minus one day). I think this is the best picture ever taken of me. Wish I had hair…..
Why I Ride
As with others, I ride for the sense of freedom, the sense that I am both within myself and extending myself, pushing myself past the limits I have imposed on myself.
I ride because I can at once focus intensely on one activity while freeing my brain to think, imagine, fly…
I ride because I was 320 pounds and I will never go back there. I ride because riding is the place I go when the temptations grow strong. A ride quells the urges to eat and burns calories to boot.
I ride because I was never a good athlete but I can ride. I can handle the bike well, I can sprint, I can ride fast, I can ride far..
I ride because I was out of shape and riding helped get me back to a place of health and fitness and mental and emotional well-being.
I ride because when I am out of the road, 20 miles from home and listening to my breathing and the wind and the steady whirr of the tires on pavement, my mind is freed of all concerns but the ride, the cadence, the speed, the distance. I am able to escape to a place of rhythm and pace, a place of personal challenge and inner focus.
I ride because a bad ride is better than sitting in a chair and staring at a computer screen. I ride because the release it gives me makes me a better person.
I ride because when I was fat it was what I could not do.
I ride because when I ride I remember I am not fat any longer and I have the tools to never be fat again.
I started to ride a bike when I was 8 years old. Despite their best efforts, my father and my two brothers all failed in teaching me to ride. Finally, on a bike with two flat tires that I dragged out of the back of the garage, I taught myself to ride.
I rode until I was in my mid-thirties and then for some reason I drifted from it. I got heavy. Then I got fat.
Now I ride so that will never happen again.
I ride because I am never so much ME as I am when I ride.
Making Plans
I have already mentioned that I am signed up for or plan to sign up for a number of rides this year:
High Point to Cape May September 1- 3, 2013, 220 miles over three days (Planned)
I may add more, probably will, as the year moves forward.
There are some rides I want to do but a variety of issues make them impossible. One is the ride in Montreal. I can’t do it this year and it breaks my heart. Next year come hell or high water….
Fun to be at a place in my life and in my health and fitness where I can plan these rides and know I will be able to do them….
Not far. About three and a half miles. Ice on the trail cut the hike short. Not really wanting to break my neck… But it was a fun hike. I went with my friend PGB to Harriman State Park in Sloatsburg, New York. We have hiked there two or three times before, maybe more. The trails are more challenging than at the Rockefeller Preserve and it is MUCH closer to home. PGB is good company, intelligent, witty and patient. Who could ask for more.
I think we would have hiked five or six miles if the ice had not presented a problem.. Waiting for better weather….
Crampons would have helped…
A Waterfall along the trail at Harriman State Park
It was a really good day for a hike. It was cold but not windy and once in a while a little sun poked through. Mostly it was gray and overcast and I think I say a few snowflakes. I wish we could have gone farther but there was that ice..
Bread Baking
I have mentioned here many times how much I love to bake bread. With family coming to dinner tonight I wanted to make sure that I served a delicious dinner with some homemade bread. With the hike cut short I was able to make four loaves of bread: two whole wheat and two potato-flour and egg breads.
I am so relaxed when I make bread. So at peace. I really wonder if I should have been a baker.
The bread came out very well. The Older One loves the whole wheat and the guests enjoyed the potato-flour and egg bread.
It is always a boost when the foods I make are well received.
Here is the recipe for the Potato-flour & egg bread:
All my bread recipes assume you have a KitchenAid or similar heavy-duty mixer.
5-6 cups of All-purpose flour. I use King Arthur brand. I have tried many others and for breads I have found none as good.
2 packets active dried yeast
2 cups of hot water: about 110 degrees F.
1 tablespoon sugar
2 teaspoons table salt
4 tablespoons potato flour. Again, I use King Arthur Brand.
2 large eggs
Egg wash
Sesame seeds
Dissolve the sugar and the yeast in the two cups of water and allow the yeast to proof. About five minutes. You should see a nice head of foam form after about 5 minutes.
Put the first two cups of flour in the mixer bowl and add the salt and potato flour.. With the flat beater and the mixer set at speed two blend the salt and potato flour with the two cups of all-purpose.
When the yeast is finished proofing give it a good stir with a fork and then pour all at once in to the mixer still mixing on setting two with the flat beater. Add the two eggs. After one to two minutes you should have a soupy mix in the bowl. Turn off the mixer, remove the flat beater, scraping clean with a spatula. Put in the dough hook. Set mixer to speed two and add two level cups of the all-purpose flour. When well incorporated add one more cup.
After the fifth cup is well incorporated you will add the sixth cups a small amount at a time until the dough is forming a ball and leaving the sides of the bowl clean. Stop the mixer and feel the dough. It should be SLIGHTLY sticky.
If it is very sticky add a small amount of flour and run the mixer until the added flour is well incorporated. Stop the mixer and feel the dough again. Repeat the additional flour until the dough is slightly sticky. Remove the dough from the bowl and form in to a ball. Place in an oiled bowl and cover. I use cooking spray to oil the bowl and I cover with plastic wrap. Leave in a worm place to rise until doubled in size. This should take about an hour.
Punch down the dough and cut in to two equal sized pieces. I use a kitchen scale to make sure I get this right. Form in to ball and place on an oiled baking sheet. I use the silicone baking sheet liners so I don’t need to oil the baking sheet.
Gently flatten the balls of dough until they are roughly 6 inches in diameter and as round as you can form them. Make sure they are far enough apart on the tray so they can rise properly.
Cover with plastic wrap and allow to rise until roughly double in size, about 45 minutes.
Make an egg wash with one whole egg and an equal amount of water. Mix together well. When the dough is done with the second rise, gentle brush with the egg was so the entire surface of the dough has a light coating of wash. Sprinkle liberally with the sesame seed. Score the dough with an X. Place in a preheated oven at 400 degrees. Back until golden brown. Cool on a rack for at least 30 minutes.
Today’s Potato-flour & Egg bread.
Dinner
I made Shrimp Creole with chicken and Chicken Sausage for dinner tonight. Of course you could use chorizo or any other sausage of your preference. I would not use Italian style sausage. Wrong flavor profile. I use a chicken and garlic herb sausage that we buy precooked. Very good and fits the Creole very well.
It was very well received by my family tonight and I really enjoy cooking it. It comes together very quickly. The prep takes some time as there are a lot of things to cut and cook ahead…
This is based on 5-servings from this recipe, not including the rice….
1 lb raw shrimp, deveined and shelled. I like larger shrimp. Any size would probably work just fine.
1 green bell pepper seeded and coarsely chopped
1 red bell pepper seeded and coarsely chopped
1 yellow bell pepper seeded and coarsely chopped
1 medium onion coarsely chopped
2 tablespoons of fresh chopped parsley
28 ounces of canned diced tomato drained but reserve the liquid
1 tablespoon of crushed thyme
2 tablespoons of crushed or diced garlic
Black pepper to taste
1 teaspoon chili powder (more or less to taste)
Butterfly the chicken breasts and grill in a hot pan with a little olive oil. Make sure to give the chicken a good sear and turn as needed to brown nicely on each side. Cook until the chicken is JUST done. Set aside, when cooled enough to handle cut in to half-inch pieces.
If using the precooked chicken sausage, slice the chicken sausage in to ¼ inch thick slices and set aside.
If using raw sausage or a sausage like Chorizo, slice in to ¼ inch slices and fry in the pan you just removed the chicken from. You want to render the fats and give the Chorizo a nice sear. Set aside.
There should be plenty of fats in the pan now from the chicken (and the Chorizo if you used them). Add the peppers, onion and garlic in the pan and give them a good stir fry, you want the peppers and onions to begin to wilt and caramelize just a slight bit. Add chili powder and thyme and black pepper to taste. Add in the chicken and sausage.
Give the spice a little time to blend in and give up their flavors while stirring. Now add the tomatoes. Stir well and add a few spoonfuls of the reserved liquids from the tomatoes to help deglaze the pan.
Now add the shrimp and continue to cook until the shrimp are cooked through, stirring constantly. Add the reserved liquid a few ounces at a time to maintain a “wet sauce” but not make it soup-like. Add the chopped parsley right at the end of the cooking time and stir in.
As soon as the shrimp is cooked through the dish is ready. Taste the broth and season to taste.
Serve over rice with a bottle of hot sauce at the table. This is also very good over linguine
Talking about Weight Loss
Of course some of the conversation concerned weight loss. I have lost a few pounds as you all know. Inevitably we talked about it. When you lose over 100 pounds people want to talk about it and I am really happy to oblige.
The question always comes up and I cannot answer it strongly enough to make it clear I guess. I have not now, nor have I ever at any time during this Journey of mine been on a special diet. I am not on Paleo, Atkins, South Beach…… OR ANY OTHER dig name or little name or self invented diet. I am not on a diet.
The fact of the matter is that I eat less than I used to.
I don’t PIG OUT the way I used to. I had some more bread tonight than I normally would and I had a very small piece of pie today. I stayed within the calorie limits I place on myself and YES I COUNT CALORIES.
The point I am making here is simple to me. Eat less, eat right, move more. That is what I tell friends and family and complete strangers. I am thinking of making it in to the T-Shirt.
I want to live this way for the rest of my life. I love it. I enjoy being lean. I love the way I eat and I love talking about the weight loss. I am proud that I have done this without a special diet. Without Juicing. Without fasting. Without any of the fads that seem to crop up each spring along with the dandelions. This has led some to think that A) I am knowledgeable about weight loss and B) that I am disdainful of the diets and such.
I was able to do it and the temptation is to say that anyone can do it if I can but I know it is not true. I cannot tell you why I have been able to do it so far. Nearly 8 months since reaching my goal weight I am still under that weight and maintaining it. I fully expect to lose 5-10 more pounds with the arrival of spring.
So I want to clarify:
A) I am not knowledgeable about weight loss. I only know what has worked for me and what continues to work for me. I know that a proper nutritional profile is critical so I make sure to eat a well-rounded diet of grains, vegetables, fruits and proteins. I watch my calories to make sure that I stay within the plan.
I know that exercise is important so I walk, hike, bike…
I also know that most weight loss comes from how much you eat not how much you exercise. I try to maintain a balance.
B) I am not disdainful of, negative about, or against the diets and surgeries and medications that are out there. For me they have proven unnecessary. I cannot tell you why.
I am proud that I have done it without the diets and such but I know that there are people for whom they represent the best options. I can only say this: you need to learn to eat right and eat less if you are going to maintain the weight loss after you reach your goal and you move away from the diet.
And talk about it. Talk about it all the time. It will help you keep a focus on it.
In which I contemplate absurd moments in parenthood, occasionally attempt to refer to myself as a “triathlete” while keeping a straight face, and maybe post some random pictures of stuff I’m knitting
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